1. I am more patient and have a go with the flow attitude. These are characteristics seemed to be instilled in all Thai people and they have all kinds of phrases to encourage others to act the same way. Most are equivalient to "chill out". This has been hard to adjust and been a huge learning experience for me. I definitely think that I have chilled out a lot and know that I am more patient.
2. Anything 9-100 degrees, really is not that hot. As long as you have a fan and some water you can stay pretty comfortable. And if you get too hot to handle, it's perfectly acceptable to take 2 or 3 showers a day.
3. You don't have to kill bugs/animals/critters just to get rid of them. You can kindly escort them outside, sweep them away, or trap them and then set them free.
4. Any trip in a car or bus that is four hours or less, seems short to me now.
5. I can actually ride a bike like a semi-normal person. I will admit that growing up, I was not the most graceful on a bike. Oh, and I can change tires now!
6. I can entertain myself on the computer without using the internet. This happens when your connection depends on how many clouds are around.
7. I now prefer to drink with ice and whisky with soda water.
8. I can eat anything for breakfast. Even if it includes meat, vegetables, and plenty of spiciness to boot.
9. I can fit all my earthly possessions into two....well maybe three suitcases.
10. I am perfectly comfortable performing songs well out of my range to a room full of strangers, along with dancing and making speeches.
11. I can handle being around little kids and actually enjoy it.
12. I can sit around waiting for someone for two hours or more and not be THAT pissed.
13. I can watch any episode of Seinfeld any day and never be sick of it.
I'm sure there are so many more to be added to this list, but that's what I am noticing right now. I am thankful to have been given the time to change and hope that those changes that have made me a better person will be returning to America with me.
Sarah, I loved reading this! So nice to hear the ways you've felt you have changed throughout your time in Thailand. I can completely relate with some of them- especially the patience! Time seems to move at a different pace in other parts of the world. Miss and love you girl!
ReplyDeleteKelin
Wow, these are qualities I wish I could acquire but after 73 years still have a lot to get there...You're missing the terriable heat/humidity we are haveing down here in Tn. Reminds me of my tow tours there in Issan during the heat season & monsoon...Keep hanging in there and CHOKE DEE..Robert
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